Planting Roots on the Move

In the ever-changing landscape of military life, new orders can mean packing up and moving at a moment’s notice. The concept of “putting down roots” takes on a unique significance. For military spouses, the challenge is adapting to new environments and finding ways to thrive within them, no matter how short the stay. This feature explores strategies for military spouses to cultivate a sense of belonging and achievement in both community and professional realms, even in transient times.

Grounded: Cultivating Community Connections

1. Engage with Local Military Support Groups: Most military bases and communities have support groups like Family Readiness Groups (FRGs) or spouses’ clubs. These groups offer a ready-made network of individuals who understand the military lifestyle. They can offer friendship as well as valuable local insights.
2. Volunteer in Your New Community: Volunteering is a powerful and positive way to connect in new surroundings. Whether it’s through schools, local charities or community projects, volunteering can lead to meaningful connections and a deeper understanding of your new home.
3. Participate in Local Events and Activities: Attend community events, festivals, and gatherings. Such activities not only help you to learn more about the area but also offer opportunities to meet neighbors and form new friendships.

Planting Roots Professionally

1. Embrace Remote and Flexible Work: The rise of remote work has opened new possibilities for military spouses to maintain and advance their careers without geographical constraints. Seek out employers and careers that offer flexibility and support for the military lifestyle.
2. Join Professional Networks: Professional associations related to your field can be invaluable for continuing education, networking, and career development. Online platforms like LinkedIn also offer groups and networking opportunities tailored to military spouses.
3. Pursue Further Education or Certifications: Taking courses or obtaining certifications that enhance your skills can make you more competitive in the job market. Many educational institutions offer online programs, which are perfect for military spouses on the move.

Branching Out: Build a Portable Lifestyle

1. Create a Mobile Home Life: Invest in making your living space quickly feel like home, with easily transportable decor and a focus on creating a cozy, welcoming environment wherever you go.
2. Document Your Journey: Keep a blog or journal of your experiences in different places. This can not only serve as a personal keepsake but also as a way to share your journey with others, creating a narrative thread that runs through your moves.
3. Maintain Digital Connections: In today’s digital age, physical distance doesn’t have to mean social distance. Maintain connections with friends, family, and professional contacts through social media, video calls, and other digital communication tools.

Marquiesha Gillispie, BSBA, MPA, is the Director of the Federal Military Family Network within the Interagency Veterans Advisory Council, a role supported by the White House’s Joining Forces Initiative. A military spouse and advocate for the military-connected community, she is deeply committed to serving those who have served. Her career trajectory showcases a profound commitment to enhancing the lives of the underrepresented and underserved. This includes a dedication to ensuring that small businesses have fair access to federal procurement opportunities, as Senior Acquisition Professional with the U.S. General Services Administration and previously with the U.S. Small Business Administration.

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